Hill Top Prep alumni parents attended meetings held at the Headmaster's residence for the purpose of sharing their thoughts about life after graduation.... it was intended to be just a conversation. The alumni parents with children who are alumni from the past ten graduating classes and who had responded to Dr. Schindler's survey were the ones we invited to join this conversation. Each conversation was started with the question, "What does independence mean for you, for your child, for your situation?" Several parents spoke of losing the structure and the caring staff from their years at Hill Top when that diploma arrived. After graduation, the parents were kind of on their own. Legally, their children were no longer minors and that meant that the parents weren't able to manage their children's lives in as direct a fashion as they had before graduation. Two parents talked about just trying to get grades from their child's college, or to learn how h...